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In this week’s episode, I’m back…your shoot-it-straight talking life coach, as we dive into the transformative power of forward focus. The weight of the past could be baggage from a previous marriage, relationship, job, a failed business venture…whatever didn’t work out quite like you thought it would.  Can you relate???

Breaking Free from the Weight of the Past and its impact on Your Present

Come explore the profound effects of carrying old baggage into new seasons of life. Discover the importance of letting go, embracing change, and not letting a single season define your entire life. Tune in for practical insights and actionable steps to lighten the load and propel yourself toward a brighter, more focused future. It’s time to “check the bags” you’ve been lugging around and travel a bit lighter through life. 

The Weight of Baggage

Carrying baggage from the past can feel like lugging around a heavy load that hinders our ability to move forward. Whether it’s the remnants of a failed relationship, the disappointment of a job that didn’t fulfill expectations, or the echoes of a business venture that didn’t take off, this baggage can weigh us down and impact our present and future.

The Profound Effects of Carrying Old Baggage:

a. Stagnation: Baggage from the past can lead to stagnation, preventing us from embracing new opportunities and experiences. It creates a comfort zone, albeit an uncomfortable one, that keeps us tethered to what was instead of what could be.

b. Emotional Strain: Carrying old baggage can take a toll on our emotional well-being. Unresolved issues and lingering disappointments can lead to stress, anxiety, and a sense of being stuck in a never-ending loop of the past.

c. Hindered Relationships: Baggage can also affect our current relationships, as it may manifest as trust issues, fear of commitment, or an inability to fully invest in new connections.

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The Kristi Jones Podcast -  Forward Focus: Shedding the weight of the past for a new season

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Letting Go of the weight of the past and Embracing Change

a. Acceptance: The first step to letting go is acceptance. Acknowledge the past, learn from it, but don’t let it define your present or future.

b. Forgiveness: Whether forgiving yourself or others, forgiveness is a powerful tool in unburdening yourself from the weight of the past.

c. Embrace Change: Understand that change is a constant in life. Embrace it as an opportunity for growth and transformation.

Don’t Let a Single Season Define Your Life

It’s essential to recognize that a single season, no matter how challenging, does not define your entire life. Each season brings lessons, and by focusing on the positive aspects and opportunities for growth, you can shape a more fulfilling future.

Practical Insights and Actionable Steps

a. Reflect: Take time to reflect on the baggage you’ve been carrying. Identify specific incidents or patterns that have been holding you back.

b. Set Intentions: Define your intentions for the future. What kind of life do you want to lead? What steps can you take to move in that direction?

c. Seek Support: Don’t hesitate to seek support from friends, family, or even professional guidance to help you navigate the process of letting go and moving forward.


As we wrap up this episode, remember that the transformative power of forward focus lies in your ability to shed the weight of old baggage and step into each new season with a fresh perspective. It’s time to check the bags, let go of what no longer serves you, and travel a bit lighter through life. Until next time, dear listeners, embrace the journey ahead and focus on the incredible possibilities that await when you release the burdens of the past.

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